Relationships – Channeling 4/27/2013

soul love
Relationships. You human beings focus much on relationships, wanting them, wanting to be rid of them, wanting different ones from what you have, etc. etc. All is a relationship. Everything is in relationship to everything else. We find it amusing when some of you say you cannot do relationships for you are in relationships every single day of your existence on planet Earth and on the Other Side. Humans have the need to bond. That bonding can be as friends, coworkers, siblings, other relatives, or lovers. It seems to us that you focus on romantic relationships when they are not any more important than other relationships. In fact, although family and friend relationships certainly cause their share of pain, it is romantic relationships that seem to cause the most suffering. There is something to be said for the Buddhist precept of non-attachment. Although to some it may seem cold to remain nonattached, it is actually anything BUT cold. When you are nonattached, you can love people more purely. We do not mean love in the typical fashion, or that would not be nonattached. We mean love at a pure soul level. Our channel recently had a “dream” in which the soul of the man she feels pain about took her hands and very lovingly told her that she needed to move on. Across the background of the “dream” the current incarnation of this man walked by and looked at her with a look of disgust/dismissal. She could see from this spiritual event that at a soul level he had agreed to enter her life to teach her something knowing that he would have to hurt her…but that it would lead to much spiritual growth for her. People in your soul family agree, sometimes, to hurt you in order to help you…and that is a VERY high level of love, the kind of love we are talking about here. That is not attached love. For attached love only depletes you. It makes you feel lesser than what you are, which is divine love incarnated. No one or nothing should ever make you forget the incredible force of love that you are. No one and nothing is worth feeling incomplete without for you are complete unto yourself. People simply enter your life as an exchange of energy, no matter how long or how brief. You each teach each other. It’s never a totally one-way street. Even when you can’t see the lesson or learning from some specific experience, it IS recorded in your soul and Akashic Record. We know this is easier said than done, but the best way to go through life is to be happy within yourself and feel complete within yourself. Should you meet another soul along the way to whom you are drawn on an energetic level, then explore why you have met. There is always a reason. But you must go into it accepting that some painful lessons may manifest and that it may be a temporary relationship. That does not make it any less important. Our channel had a brief 5 minute talk with an AIDS patient many years ago that changed her life…and changed his. We here (in this regard, we feel as one of you because we also learn from you) on this plane of existence simply must learn to love so much that the soul progress of the other person is more important than he or she being our mate. For all evens out in the end. We know it is hard for you to be happy about the truth that although things may not work out in this life, they will be worked out in another…or not. Things have to be looked at from a much grander perspective. This life is simply not all there is. And when you are once again back on the Other Side, this will all seem like amusement. You will not understand what you got so worked up about. And divine love…the truly limitless and truly unconditional love on the Other Side is so vastly beyond what you can currently comprehend we cannot put it into appropriate words. You must trust us on this. With that we bid you peace and at-one-ment. ~ Your Brothers from the Light

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